Moments

Let go

Some words in the book, “How to Find Love”… really sparked something in me.

In Chapter V: Obstacles to Finding Love, it says: We would go free to give things a go by accepting that failure was the norm.

I said to myself millions of times, “Don’t panic and be confident about failure.” But deep down in my heart, it seems I wish for, or even demand, that I will be successful in whatever I do, whether it is about love, career, or my hobbies.

I am such a perfectionist and so controlling. Some rigid frames constrained my mind, making letting go a hard thing.

I guess I have to continue talking to myself, again and again: failure is the norm of life.

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Pursuing vitality

Xifu Haitang at Taoranting Park (陶然亭公园的[西府海棠](https://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E8%A5%BF%E5%BA%9C%E6%B5%B7%E6%A3%A0)) — Xifu Haitang at Taoranting Park (陶然亭公园的西府海棠)

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March nourishes my growth 🌷

I had a chance to look back at old pictures taken in March of previous years, and I realized that amazing things always seem to happen then. Interning at IAAR in March 2025; anxiously beginning work on Memory3 in March 2024; toiling away on a thesis in March 2023; sharing wonderful deep talks with Qingchen in March 2022; and launching my English Speech Month in March 2021…